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When the 'be kind' mask comes off the totalitarian ideology

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Matt Osborne
Feb 23, 2026
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No way this is stochastic terrorism, no way. Seen in Ottawa. Source

History records that for one brief moment, it was okay to be gay. And then it passed, because the straights with interesting hair colors demanded the spotlight on campus. Kevin Waldman, a gay clinical researcher at the University of Michigan, finds that “gay male students experience conditional belonging when situated within a trans-centered LGBTQ identity hierarchy” in his research. This is a fancy way of saying they feel like strangers within their own putative ‘movement’.

Out of a sample set of 49 gay men in college, “86% reported feeling pressured to align with trans political or ideological frameworks to maintain social acceptance, while 0% of transgender participants perceived such alignment as optional for coalition cohesion.” Put simply, the straight dude in lipstick treats every gay man as a validation of his ideology, while the gay men keep their true feelings in the closet for fear of social ostracism and fal…

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